Monday, January 25, 2010

When we don't get what we want.


In my experience I found that, when I don't get what I want, it's because I don't want it 100%.
Sometimes we think we want something, but deeply, there are aspects of the situation that we don't like.
I make some example, may be I would like to have a lot of money, but I have some beliefs that rich people are egoists, that having a lot of money it's unfair, that to have money you have to cheat....
May be I would like to lose weight, but I fear that I'll change my personality, or that if I'm pretty, I will cheat on my husband, or....
When we have conflicting believes, consciously we try to achieve something, while our unconscious works against our efforts, thus feeling stuck.
So next time you cannot attain something, despite your efforts, try to figure out what are the true reasons behind.
Ask yourself "what are my fears, or what could happen, or what are the aspects that I don't like about it?"

Sunday, January 24, 2010

My blog's policy.

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I thought it was not necessary to write about it, but I saw and read something that made me change my mind.
So may be it's better to express my thoughts about this topic.
I, as a blogger, enjoy when people appreciate what I write (obviously), and comment about it, and may be follow me, but only if it is out of a total freedom, hopefully if it's really meant it.
I, personally don't follow blogs only because I want that they follow me, I read blogs that I really enjoy or that I find interesting.
And when I comment, I mean it, it is not because I have to.
It is true, that if you want to be known, and if you want to raise your readers, you have to visit and comment on other blogs, or join communities, as I did, however I want to stay true to myself, so I follow and comment only on blogs I really like.
So, now you know it, what do you think?
Thanks for listening.
.......
After I wrote this I read my horoscope, here what it said:
"If you have to deal with groups of people or with the general public, you will advocate change and new policies".
....amazing!

Thursday, January 14, 2010

The body mind connection.

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Recently I had some insights about the connection between body and mind, in relation to body weight, and I would like to express them, seeing if someone can confirm them ( or not :).
One day I heard someone saying...oh, that person is so shallow! and I noted that person was so skinny.
Is it just a case, or effectively lighthearted people (shallow has a more negative meaning) are lighter, than deep and serious and thoughtful people?
Why often people gain weight after marriage and having babies (women), does it have to do with the burden of responsibilities this imply?
Is it possible that a married person grows fat to avoid hypothetical extramarital relationship? (becoming unattractive)
One day I read that sometimes people grow fat or become even obese because they unconsciously seek visibility and attention.
Being mostly a "mental" person, is it possible that the body needs attention? Thus growing more and more to be noted?
...too much for today...
What about you? Do you recognize yourself in anything I said? Opinions?

Monday, January 4, 2010

When we feel uneasy with a person or a situation.





Today I met a person I really prefer not to meet, ......'s intrusive, and annoying, and it seems I cannot deal with ..... nor can I avoid ...... "nicely", but I digress...when at home I could not help to think about ......, and feel uneasy, but I used this quick and easy technique to stop the thoughts and feelings.
So when there is a person or a situation that makes you anxious or sad, or angry, or whatever, try this....imagine the subject, then imagine it shrinking, becoming dark, moving away from you, far, far away, until it becomes a spot and disappears.
With me it worked immediately, I totally forgot about h... until now...;)
I 'm afraid I have to do it again... kidding!

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